Before Finding Love, You Have to do the Work


Okay. I am going to give you a stern talking to. Are you ready? Good. Since I have announced that I am a certified matchmaker, I have been approached several times. It’s been great! However, as soon as I ask people to fill out a questionnaire that will take them 15 minutes, they look at me like I have six…

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Why Traveling Was Good For Our Relationship


I have traveled before I met my partner Gareth (as I like to call BG, Before Gareth.) I had gone to various random places in the states with my family. The usual California, New York, Zion and I saw my best friend get married in Australia.  I would say that I hardly traveled. Five states and once out of the…

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How to Get Closer to Your Significant Other


The supreme happiness in life is the conviction that we are loved, are the words of famous French novelist, Victor Hugo, and for sure it’s the greatest truth. Noble thing as knowing that you are in love with somebody is a very rare thing in modern society, that’s why it’s even more precious. Finding your soulmate is already difficult, but…

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Traveling to Paris with Your Partner?


The comedian and I are about to embark on our first trip across the pond together.  I asked one of my favorite contributors to share her story with her significant other. ______________________________________________________________________ My partner changed my world when I started dating him.  We traveled so much together and he has definitely got me out of my bubble.  Our trips are…

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5 Signs You’re in a Bad Relationship


Are you dating a narcissist? Master Manipulator? Emotional Terrorist? Here are some signs that you are in a bad relationship. I was told these signs a million times by people over the past years, and I pushed them back saying “he isn’t abusive things aren’t that bad, he doesn’t hit me.” If you find that you are doing this and…

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5 Topics Couples Don’t Discuss Until It’s Too Late


Murphy’s law teaches us only one thing. Couples should discuss topics that can go south before they occur. Marriage is a fortress; its stability depends on how much attention you devote while building its base. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure, that’s why you should discuss this topic on time; it might spare you of nerve-wracking…

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10 Ways You Know You’re in a Good Relationship


As you all know I am a relationship know-it-all, I can look at any couple and tell you how long they will last. If you believe this statement, then you are a fool. I am no expert, but I have had my heart broken and stepped on like the doormat. But I learn from my mistakes I can tell some…

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The Ultimate Dating Basket Giveaway


March madness is among us!  Coming from a University of Florida Gator, this time reminds me of the years I was there when we won 3 championships in 2 years (2 basketball and 1 football).  In commemoration of great times, I felt it was time for a giveaway. I’ve talked about them so many times in my blog and in…

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Online Dating – You’re Doing It Wrong


Smartphones and apps have opened the floodgates of free online dating. And why not? You can meet lots of interesting people online – more than you’ll meet in a loud, smoky bar. You can filter them to make sure their age, appearance, background, and interests are compatible with yours. And it’s fun. Research firm GlobalWebIndex reported in 2015 that 91…

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