The Mimbo

Over the years, I have come across many men who hold the qualities of what one might call a “Bimbo”.  I have recently encountered another male “bimbo” or “mimbo.  Granted, it is difficult to not be attracted to his beautiful smile or great physique and in a bar atmosphere, I would not know the wiser.  However, as soon as I have our first non-belligerent conversation, I realize this man is not necessarily the brightest crayon in the box.

I tend to be extremely sarcastic and smart witted.  I find it humorous when a man does not really get what you’re saying but tries to out wit you.  I believe the turning point to the mimbo and I was either the fact he asked me what I meant when I told him we were not on the same level intellectually or emotionally (I say emotionally because I have recently came out of a hurtful situation) or that he wanted to introduce me to his parents the first week that we met.  Granted, it was nice to know a man was in touch with his emotions but at the same time.

I wonder if it is difficult to put your superficiality aside and look beyond to find someone who has a personality that fits yours.  But then again, when you’re rebounding from a break up, it might be best to know that you’re rebounding with a hottie.  Just ask him not to speak.

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  • The Settler vs The Reacher - Val's Bytes December 22, 2016 at 9:04 pm

    […] no plans to do it until I was ready.  Like my 30s.  At that time, I dated a lot of umm “mimbos” (really good looking men with no intellect whatsoever).  I think it was a conquest for […]

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