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5 Signs You’re in a Bad Relationship


Are you dating a narcissist? Master Manipulator? Emotional Terrorist? Here are some signs that you are in a bad relationship. I was told these signs a million times by people over the past years, and I pushed them back saying “he isn’t abusive things aren’t that bad, he doesn’t hit me.” If you find that you are doing this and…

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A Commitphobe strikes again!


I am sincerely honored to get asked advice from someone who I normally speak to in my social circle.  Thank you so much for reading my blog! Here goes: Dear Val, I have fallen for a commitphobe guy which I dated for 2 months. He has been in relationships up to 5 years but only because of his children. Every…

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Our Ego makes us Judge


“Judge not, that ye be not judged.  For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.” – Matthew 7:1-2 (KJV) Society and the bible teaches us two different things.  All over social media someone is judging what someone is wearing, what they are doing, how they…

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Knowing Me First


“To love others you must first love yourself” – Leo Buscaglia Since the chain of events that changed my life in my early twenties, I found it a mission to really mold myself into the person that I wanted to become.  In order to that, you have to be conscious of your own nuances.  Why do I get angry when…

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Bruised Egos


It’s amazing how one blog can inspire so many conversations. In the last week, I have come across a new realization that one’s own ego is the basis of all of our craziness. Have you ever thought as to why something or someone has affected you so much, its because they hurt your ego. It’s true that women dress for…

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Why does it matter?


Being in a relationship like the one I’m in has opened my mind up to all kinds of things I would not have embarked on while being single. It’s really the strangest feeling. When I was single, if I was dismissed by someone, my ego would take over and I would say to myself, this guy doesn’t know what he’s…

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