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date night jitters

How to Cure Date Night Jitters


Date night is intimidating. This is the first time you and someone you are romantically interested in are going to sit down face to face and get to know each other. No pressure. Val and Brenda start the episode on a lighter note discussing the season and how Latinos drink hot chocolate. Does anyone else put cheese in their hot…

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that girl

Don’t Be That Girl


I am so excited to announce that we’re back on track. After a little bit of a hiatus, we’re back to our regularly scheduled program. It’s cuffing season. I dedicated the month of November to the single girl. Today, we got some advice for the ladies (and even sometimes guys) not to sweat the small stuff. Don’t be that girl.…

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fight fair

How to Fight Fair


Fighting is perfectly healthy in any relationship. When you and your significant other get into a spat, it’s important to remember to fight fair. Val and Brenda discuss some tips on how to get out of a fight with a resolution not broken spirits. Don’t be afraid of conflict You both come from different backgrounds regardless of how many similarities…

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Types of Guys

Types of Guys We’ve Dated Who Left Us Speechless


If you have been dating, you have probably dated one of these guys.  If not, then you are very lucky.  Today, Brenda and I talk about those guys who have left a dent in our dating experience.  These types of guys have personality traits that make our jaws drop.  This is a short list.  Let us know if you have…

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too soon for sex, dr. arny olivera

When is it too soon for sex?


We’re excited to share today’s interview with Dr. Arny Olivera who is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Clinical Sexologist. Val met Arny over 15 years ago at a club.  Yep, relationships, or at least friendships, do exist after a night out with friends.  Since then, he has become a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and last year,…

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married with twins

Married with Twins


Ever since Mitchell and Linda Lopez found out they were going to have twins, their world turned upside down. Brenda and I interview the couple to find out how they deal with parenting, their careers, and keeping the spice alive in their marriage. This is an episode that’s raw, honest, and can only be understood if you listen to the…

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Marriage podcast

6 Topics You Need to Discuss Before Marriage


Many women dream about the day of their wedding. We forget the reason for the wedding is marriage. Couples don’t take the time to discuss their likes, dislikes, wants, needs, and more before taking the leap. In 2015, the divorce was 16.9 out of every 1000 women. Knowing your mate before walking down the aisle will help in keeping you…

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bad dating habits

6 Dating Habits You Need to Drop Today


We’re back on track.  Tuesday is where it’s at. In today’s podcast, Brenda and I recollect our dating past by telling stories about dating habits that made us cringe.  Chivalry is not dead This goes both ways.  Guys, open a door for a gal, pull out their chair, and walk her to the door at the end of the date.…

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dating your friends ex, dating advice

5 Tips Before Dating Your Friend’s Ex


And we’re back… just a little late. We’re working on some exciting changes in the background, so don’t you worry, we’ll be up and running soon on our regularly scheduled program. On today’s episode, we talk about what to do when you think you’re falling for your friend’s ex.  This is a sticky situation especially if your friend might still…

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sex myths, sex myth

5 Sex Myths Debunked


In today’s episode, Brenda and I discuss fantasies.  It is very apparent that hers involve some act of service or chores done around the house.  Her requests might seem a little off, but they sure make her happy. Then we get into the meat of the show, five sex myths debunked.  I’m sure you’ve heard them one time or another.…

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